Nashville-based singer/songwriter Abby Robertson has a lot to be proud of in her music career so far. She’s opened for names like The Beach Boys and Switchfoot. She’s performed at international music festivals in Israel, Malta and Ethiopia. She’s released pop songs and even had a stint in country music—all before age 21.

Change is hard, but you’ve done it before! You are a new creature, and you can choose a new way to think and talk about people who have hurt you.