Family Strains

Feeling so helpless and not sure what to do or what to ask for. My son has some pretty serious anxiety and depression. My husband is an alcoholic. The two personalities do not mix well at all and we all live together. Some times I just want to run away from home. Big blow up today in front of my in-laws who have stresses of their own. Both pointing fingers at each other. I'm mad, sad, frustrated… I am struggling to keep the family together. Praying for God's intervention to help fix this. Thank you for your help!!